hiya.
my sister keeps crying about my dad, i dnt thnk she understands why he's not here and why things are so laid back at his house and not at home. its reli hurting me seeing her lyk this sme nights bt my mum jst has a go at me. i wnt 2 explain things 2 her, i no she wnt understand bt it must b so hard 4 her anyway cuz she doesnt understand so much. any ideas how i cud cimplify it?......btw my dad had an afair 10 yeatrs ago bt she wundt understand that. thnx x x
Tell her how her daddy loves some one else n mummy finds it hard because she wanted to be still loved by daddy. would this help or not?? Do u want to explain the situation slightly more?? i might be able to give you some more help,
Kiwi
thanks kiwi, that was agreat idea :)
my mum has a bf hu jess loves nd she luves my step mum, so 2 her its like she has 2 mummy's nd 2 daddy's..how cud i explain that they arent real parents if u get me?
thnx sooo mch
bex x x
Just say that ur mummy and daddy have new ppl that they love- and these ppl are like new mummy and daddy but they arent as special as real mummy n daddy because they love you that little bit more.
Yeah i suppose i can be- it just depends- i know how to talk to them, and to get the right message through to them. But maybe you should read my newest blog about tuesday 13th november. Might make ya think about y im good at it or not as the case may be.
Love ya all sooo much.
If u need any more advice im hear to help you!!
try and say that dad still loves mum ever so much but .... dad loves another less special mum
and that they all love her lots and lots and will never stop loving her
good luck
xx