Ok the first thing that i have to suggest is to
- go on a manual handling course, so that u get tort how to lift your mum correctly.
- Speak to your doctor to get some pain relif and to make sure your not damaging ur back
- Do u have any1 else to help u bro's sis's dad ect. if so tell them about your pain and see if they can help you lift her.
- Make sure your school know of your situation, and if you are needin a while off school get work off them cuz you dont wanna fall behind
- Is there a nurse that comes and visits your mum that you could talk to about maybe getting some lifting equimpent so that you dont damage your self.
How old are you?
I hope this helps you,
WB love Kiwi